Household Sayings

A close-up of a prickly pear cactus plant with pink and white fruits growing in clusters on fichidini.com.
A group of prickly pears, with some cut open to reveal bright red fruit.
The author holding open a photo album with black and white photographs of children, animals, and vintage cars.
Decorative framed handwritten Italian ceramica reading 'Dove c'e Dio c'e' pace', which translates to "Where there is God, there is peace."
A person wearing a black suit, white shirt, and striped tie, standing on a staircase in an urban setting, with their arms crossed and a watch visible on their left wrist.
Nonna and Gina as a little girl.
A group of women smiling and embracing each other, dressed warmly in jackets and scarves, in an outdoor setting.
A person with a hand on a Siberian Husky dog lying on a bed, black and white photo.
The moon shining brightly through clouds in a dark night sky.

Fichidini.
Fruit.

Means prickly pears, an edible cactus fruit. Tough to harvest. Delicious to eat. See the About  page and this article for more.

La Famiglia.
The apex of life.

Means “the family,” of course. My family photos, dating back nearly 100 years, inspired this website and the work-in-progress novel “You’re in America Now.”

Parla como mangi.
Mild admonishment to speak plainly.

Literal translation: “speak like you eat”.

American translation: stay solid; keep it real.

Alza il culo e andiamo!
Command.

Get off your ass, and let’s go!

Dove c'è Dio, c'è pace.
Blessing.

Meaning: “Where there is God, there is peace.” An Italian ceramica plaque with this saying hung above our kitchen sink.

Chiù niuri ri mezzannotte nun pò fari.
Encouragement

It literally means, “it can’t get any darker than midnight.” In English you might say “things can only get better.”

Lui cervellu non pigghia abbastanza aria bona.
Insult.

Attributes a tall person’s poor judgement to the thin air he breathes at lofty heights, whether by altitude, power, or arrogance. Translates as, “his brain can’t get enough oxygen.”

L’ amuri è come a tussi…nun si po ammucciari.
Truism.

Love is like coughing… you can’t hide it.